Hello, November!

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It’s November, the time of the year when we seem to enter warp speed. Just when I am most wishing that time would slow down so that we could linger in the good weather and in holiday magic.

A few things helping me to slow down time right now are: Christmas planning in my Holidays Master Plan Google Doc and Christmas Gifts Google Sheet; listening to The Lazy Genius podcast How to Make the Rest of 2023 Easier, and queuing up both the Calm Christmas audiobook (for a re-listen; and to note I listen via Hoopla where it’s free and always available if that service is available through your library) and the Calm Christmas podcast. Also, I’ve started a little ritual of “coffee and reading time” with Maeve during which we snuggle on the couch in the morning to read fall and Thanksgiving books while I sip coffee. Those are such sweet moments that I savor.

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Last week my dad and I took a day trip to Sedona and hiked the beautiful West Fork Trail. We caught the end of the fall color (I’m making a note to go back next year but two weeks earlier) and the trail was a fun one. There’s not any elevation change so the hiking is fairly easy but you do have to cross back and forth over the river several times by hopping across sometimes precarious rock paths. I’d love to bring the boys to do it. Also, I was freezing for nearly the whole hike! So that felt like a good dose of fall. It’s hard to dress for cold weather when you’ve been nothing but hot for the past six months. But it was really great to be with my dad and to spend the day forest bathing – even if it was a very cold bath haha.

 

Big things happening in November:

+ Launch Your Year to Shine. I was so excited to share the news this week and I so appreciate all the encouragement and enthusiasm. I’ve been hard at work behind the scenes getting this ready and it’s quite satisfying to see something I dreamed of take shape in the real world.

+ Santa Fe trip with Chris! We’re taking a three-night trip as an early 40th birthday celebration. It feels a bit daunting to prep and pack to go out of town just as life is feeling so busy. But I also know that’s what will make the trip all the more enjoyable. I can’t wait. I’m looking forward to being inspired by Georgia O’Keeffe, who gives me divine feminine energy vibes, during a tour of her home and studio and a visit to the museum in Santa Fe. We’ll also spend an afternoon soaking in thermal pools. One of my all-time favorite things to do is soak in hot water outside when it’s chilly, like during our trip to Sol Duc in Olympic National Park. Ahhhhhhh…

+ Put up our Christmas tree. Now that we have a fake tree, I love to have the tree up by mid-November to enjoy the soft glow. However, we wait until the first weekend of December to hang ornaments.

+ Thanksgiving! We’ll be going to my sister-in-law’s house this year and we hope to enjoy the meal outdoors which is an Arizona perk.

 

November goals:

+  Make a holidays game-plan with Chris. Planning logistics + gifts, budgeting early, and touching base often helps create more calm and enjoyment during the holidays.

+ Complete Christmas cards except for mailing. I plan to buy a template from Etsy or use one available on Canva along with one or more photos that I’ve already taken this year. I’ll order postcard prints through VistaPrint, update addresses and print them on sticker labels, and order holiday stamps online. I really enjoy making and sending holiday cards (especially putting together our annual list of funny quotes from the kids) but also take pleasure in making the process as efficient and affordable as possible.

+ Complete teacher gifts. I already have the items for my template Christmas gift for teachers: a nice holiday dish towel from Target (this year’s pick) and Mrs. Meyers Iowa Pine hand soap. I put those two items together in a small gift bag and also include a hand-written note expressing appreciation and usually tuck one of our holiday cards in as well. This year we have five teachers to give gifts to and often I include a couple of school staff members as well, anyone who has been especially helpful or impactful during the semester.

+ Catch up on our 2023 photo album.

+ Do a quick de-clutter in the kids’ rooms. Always a great task before welcoming in new things at Christmas.

 

I hope your November is off to a good start and that you find calm and cozy.

 

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9 responses to “Hello, November!”

  1. Sue Avatar

    Hi Kelsey, obviously this may be too personal, ignore if so! But I LOVED your episode with Erica on religion and the fact that it gave me a descriptor of my own beliefs–“compassionate atheist.” Thank you for that! I’m wondering how you handle Christmas/Santa with your kids. We have always done Santa, though my older two are now “in on it.” My husband and I struggle every year with our feelings about it– obviously, our kids are so privileged relatively and don’t “need” anything, but the excitement of our little ones is so fun. But then the whole concept of “I just asked Santa and here it is!” also rubs us the wrong way. Anyway, just curious about how you handle it. Love your blog and podcast, thanks for writing.

    1. Kelsey Avatar

      Hi Sue, I don’t mind sharing at all. And thank you so much for your kind feedback about our religion and non-belief episode. We do have Santa magic in our house but I feel we have never made a HUGE deal about Santa. We don’t constantly remind our kids that “Santa is watching” and on Christmas morning we might have one “Santa” gift plus stockings but honestly I don’t think the kids really notice/care who it’s from. As they start getting to old enough to start to question a tip I got from my friend is to emphasize what the spirit of Santa is, which is giving and caring for others so that even when Santa isn’t real for them the magic and getting to help BE Santa for others is. I think that is a beautiful life lesson honestly. I get what you are saying in terms of kids getting more than they need. I think kids are so excited to get anything and I feel like if we are not going overboard with gifts and if we are sticking to our budget then I am all for embracing a day of consumerist delights as long as it’s balanced with emphasizing the other parts that make the holiday special too. I hope this helps! Let me also share a link to a great article about bringing kids in on the Santa magic which is what we did with Dash last year…

    2. Sue Avatar

      Thank you so, so much for this link and your response. This has really helped with formulating what we will tell our younger two when we explain the “we are Santa” concept.

    3. Kelsey Avatar

      I’m so glad to hear that. Happy holidays! 🙂

  2. Mary Avatar

    Thank you for the recommendation of Calm Christmas! I just tuned in and it is so lovely. I also am excited to join the Year to Shine in January. I got a spot as an early birthday present to myself! Thank you for your encouragement and inspiration!

    1. Kelsey Avatar

      Oh I love that you are gifting this to yourself for your birthday, Mary! I see you are signed up and I’m so happy to have you. And I’m so glad too that you will have Calm Christmas this season – it is SO lovely!

  3. Daria Avatar

    Thank you for this post! I love your approach to teachers’ and staff members’ gifts. We have four teachers and a couple of aftercare folks who are especially helpful. I need to get on that soon.

    1. Kelsey Avatar

      I’m so glad it’s helpful!

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