Preparing for Solid Foods

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Dashiell is four and a half months old now and the introduction of solid foods, the start of weaning, is on our horizon. We plan to start solid foods around the time he is six months old, as recommended by the American Acadmey of Pediatrics. We will also follow Dashiell's lead and look for signs that he is ready such as showing interest in our food by reaching for it and being able to sit up without assistance.

Cooking and eating is something so important to Chris and me so I'm really excited to start sharing this with Dashiell. One of the things I'm most looking forward to is Dash helping me in the kitchen once he's old enough. I'm already planning on getting something like this once he can stand so he can help with tasks like washing produce, stiring, and transfering food from one bowl to another, or just watching me. But I'm getting ahead of myself!

We already try to involve Dash in our cooking and eating by setting him in his Baby Bjorn seat on our kitchen island while we cook or eat a snack. We narrate what we're doing such as, "I'm getting out the cutting board so I can chop this cucumber. See this cucumber, it is green and has bumpy skin." Now that Dashiell can hold things and is exploring with his mouth I sometimes give him a piece of food to hold and gum, like a small, washed, bell pepper. If I'm eating a snack I face Dashiell and emphasize taking a bite and chewing so he can see what I'm doing.

We've noticed Dash taking some interest in our food, like the other day when he reached out for a cupcake Chris was eating! He's gaining some stability sitting on his own but it will definitely be a while before he is sitting unassisted. I'm in no rush though; I have so much to learn still!

Right now I'm educating myself on the different approaches to solid foods. I'm interested in the Montessori approach and baby led weaning and Kylie put together a great comparison. My preference would be skipping rice cereal but Chris has expressed concern about Dash needing an iron supplement starting at six months (since my breast milk will not supply all that he needs) and rice cereals are typically iron-fortified. So we need to research that a bit more but I expect our approach will be a blend of Montessori and baby led weaning…with some rice cereal for good measure.

Materials we have/need to gather include:

And I'll probably come up with a few more things once I start reading more. I'd love to hear any resource recommendations that you have!

7 responses to “Preparing for Solid Foods”

  1. Erica Ladd Avatar

    I am such a fan of the independence fostered with the Montessori approach to everything. That’s something we’re getting so bad at as a society, I feel, to let kids learn things on their own and navigate their own world in safe and appropriate ways. Great ideas!

  2. Allison Avatar

    my opinion, since I’ve always got one? 😉
    Skip the rice cereal. Dashiel’s iron should be fine, and it will be tested at his 8/9 month doctor visit. If you need to supplement/fortify at that point, then you can. Plenty of food options are available to give them iron: peas, spinach, parsley (which you can chop up in their food) berries, etc. A great book about nutrition and feeding babies their first foods is Nina Planck’s ‘Real Food for Mothers and Babies’ It’s really interesting and helpful, and decries iron-fortified baby cereals. But anyhow, good luck, and have fun!

    1. Kelsey Avatar

      Thanks for the book recommendation and suggestions. As we figure out what well do Ill definitely share more! Starting with iron rich foods is a good idea. Just curious, why did you skip rice cereal? Ive heard some people say it caused constipation.

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  3. kristy Avatar

    haha looking at Dash with that cake reminds me of being mortified when my grandfather took a bit of icing and fed it to B when he was about Dash’s age and then by the time N came along I offered him a taste of the cake without hesitation. We didn’t use one approach in particular with the boys but did a modified form of the baby-led with N (started with fortified oatmeal cereal before going on to the fruits and veggies). I found baby-led much less work than with B where I pureed all of my own baby food. One thing we did do with B though was go out of our way to try different veggies and fruits and I do think it is part of the reason why he is such a less picky eater than N. With the family foods approach I found we didn’t always eat a huge variety of different fruit and veggies and possibly N was turned off by some of the textures of the foods early on rather than the taste which wouldn’t have been the case necessarily if it was all pureed. We did introduce child sized utensils much earlier with N not necessarily for him to use for eating but to get used to holding and modelling after us. We always laugh now that the 2yo makes less of a mess than the 5yo eating. Also we tried hard to avoid plastic plates and cups (except for when we were on the road) in favour of smaller regular dinnerware. Admittedly a number of plates/cups did get broken but they were old dished. We’ll get the nice stuff when the boys are a little older. You could even go to the thrift store to buy some dishes for Dash if you’re worried about your good ones!

    1. Kelsey Avatar

      Love hearing the personal experience, thank you for sharing!

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  4. Carrie Avatar

    Hi Kelsey,
    Here’s our story of assisting our daughter to prepare for solids. I hope to share soon how solids are going. I too worried about the iron. Yes children can get it from other sources, including meat even early on, and they don’t need that much to begin with. I personally decided to go the rice cereal route. Especially after talking to my friend who is a registered dietician as by 6 months a baby has the digestive enzymes needed to properly handle grains. http://montessorimoms.wordpress.com/2013/08/21/pre-weaning/

    1. Kelsey Avatar

      Thanks Carrie! We are vegetarian so that might be another reason to do some iron fortified cereals.

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